1. Take responsibility for the pain that has come to your life. It is due to some karma. You can't judge the world.
2. Connect your consciusness with Krishna and His mercy, so that the pain becomes tolerable.
3. Offer with your body, mind and words full obeisance to Krishna, connect to Him.
Krishna said when one does these steps, he or she will become the heir of His mercy!
- HH Sacinandana Swami